Haterz

While some people may be happy that you are losing weight, others are killing themselves with hate, they are uncomfortable that you are actually taking control of your life. Maybe they have tried losing weight and have not succeeded, instead of joining you in the weight loss they just want to keep hating. 

The amazing one is when skinny people are hating because you are losing weight…seriously I don’t get it. Well, I guess they are scared that your beauty is becoming clearer that everyone can now see

it. They might not want to be compared with you but too bad that table is turning.

You might have friends that always get all the attention, maybe because they are what the society call normal (skinny). You are losing the fat and they are getting scared that you are getting attention and people are noticing you. The truth is, they are responsible for their feelings and opinion, you might smile and tell them how your weight loss is going but they are dying inside and hoping you fail. My advice to you is to ignore them; everyone is entitled to their opinion about you whether negative or positive. Just don’t let them pull you down. 

My haters are out from their caves, I wonder why it took them long to appear but the best way to handle them is to ignore their stupidity and small brain. There are people who only feel good when they are bringing other people down. When you are achieving your goals they are dying miserably in their mind, tearing themselves ups and wishing you fail. You might not have gotten to your goal and there are getting very uncomfortable, they constantly remind you that you might become even fatter. All they want is for you to quit. 

When I was in the middle of my journey, some will say….

Why are you not losing any more weight, I told you its hard well you are okay the way you are now? My answer was .....how is my body connected to yours? 

These little minded people have forgotten that weight loss is not just the goal but health. Weight loss is a process of having a healthy lifestyle. I don’t see why I have to explain myself to some insignificant person. 

People are working hard, struggling to lose weight and all you see is that they are still fat…you have a small and fishy brain. Some will go around carrying rumors that others are using pills to lose weight. Please I suggest you buy the pill and stop making noise. Allow them to take their pills …it’s their choice not yours, stop taking medication for another person’s illness.

When I was obese, I get side talks of friends discussing how I could allow myself get that big. If you care to know keep reading my blog to find out. I know the problem with such people, they see you are making changes and taking control of your life and being discipline, something they wish they can achieve but have not. These set of haters are called BASEMENT PEOPLE, all they do is try to limit, slow and bring you down to their level. But BALCONY PEOPLE are those who will challenge you, grow with you, lift you up and take you higher. These people understand and appreciate hard work and recognize achievement.

Ignore haterz or love them if you can. Don’t hate them just ignore them and keep working hard …….

To all haters, please stop hating and appreciate hard work